Bazi Daily - 15/11/2009

Marriages ~ Blissful or A Mess

Marriage is a social union or legal contract between individuals that creates kinship. It is an institution in which interpersonal relationships, usually intimate and sexual, are acknowledged by a variety of ways, depending on the culture or demographic.

Regardless of the culture & races, we all do hope to have a blissful marriage ever….

However, there are times whereby marriages just could not work out. The trend is, in fact, getting worse.

Being one of the most effective tools in forecasting the future, bazi can readily identify (in advance) the possible detrimental factors that exist in a bazi chart.

Below are some of the factors contributed to unsuccessful marriages :-

1. Abundance of combinations (八字多合) within the chart；
2. In addition to combination, there is also presence of Flower of Romance (桃花) and/or Hong Yan (红艳) &/or Bath (沐浴)；
3. Presence of direct & indirect spouse stars simultaneously

a. for a male chart, presence of both Conventional & Unconventional Wealth deities;
b. for a female chart, presence of both Proper & Imposing Authority deities.


Individual with above configuration / arrangement in the bazi chart are normally the person that is very sociable, especially to the opposite gender (due to the presence of abundance of combinations).

They are charming, friendly, understanding and helpful (due to the presence of Flower of Romance).

Hence, they can be very popular & are most welcomed or ‘loved’ by opposite genders.

They are, however, very passionate and can, easily, get ‘touched’ emotionally & physically (Bath & Hong Yan). They don’t really know how to handle his/her emotion & affection. They can fall in love easily and are extremely weak in resisting temptation.

Hence, this is the group of individuals that can get ‘trapped’ easily emotionally. As a result, they tend to have more lovers, prone to secret love affairs and, the worse, divorce.


Is there any way to prevent the above from happening? The answer is AFFIRMATIVE!

First of all, the individual have to recognise the fact that he/she is over ‘affectionate’ & can be over ‘friendly & helpful’ (especially to the opposite gender). Then, what he/she should do is to avoid extending the helping hand on a one-to-one basis. Make it a group activity; let the entire group to show the concern to the person that needs helps.

Individual with the presence of Bath, Hong Yan & Flower of Romance simultaneously (or at least 2) in the chart is the person with quite strong sexual desires. Hence, take up more regular exercise to ‘exhaust’ excessive energy.

As for the family members (especially the spouse), we need to express our love (both verbally & physically) more frequently. The person is simple, they are affectionate and can ‘get touched’ easily.