Personally, I do believe in natural birth. But after knowing some of the date(s) he had choosen (together with his close friend), I reluctantly gave him some guidelines and my preferred date for such purpose.
More often than not, we (equipped with knowledge of bazi) frequently asked to give advice on such event. It was shocking that most of us do not even know what to look for or what to consider when being approached by friends or relatives.
BEAR in mind that we (the person that so-called 'created' the bazi for the new life) owed a duty of care or responsibility to the person whereby we provided the advice (irregard whether or not we receive any form of remuneration).
For the next couple of days, depends on the response (ie participation rate for discussion), I am going to share with you on the step-to-step guidelines on selecting the 'suitable' date of birth.
Please take note that I used the word 'suitable', not ideal. Because, there are a lot of limitations when choosing a date for such occasion. The month & year pillars are fixed, isn't it?
Below are the information provided to me:
The expected date of operation can be anytimes inbetween = mid-March 2011 to end of March 2011.
Who want to try by sharing with us what are the factors that we need to consider?
Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.
- Soren Kierkegaard
4 comments:
Maybe we can start with choosing a Day Branch which does not chong (clash), xing (punish) or hai (harm) with the Month Branch and Year Branch.
My 2 Cents,
The luck pillar are very important. Is like the road, weather, and relationship every human need to go through.
I personally experience some "date selection" experience. I was trying to get a good date for my daughter, but my wife had medical reason and heaven choose the date. There are more real stories i know that heaven had made the choosing.
Regards,
Wei Kee
Hi Master Goh,
The period given has double Xin Mao pillar.
1. Since the pillars have countering relationship, we need to select the appropriate deities to be represented by Xin & Mao before we determine the daymaster. From my point of view, direct resource vs hurting officer or eating god vs 7 killings relationship are suitable for Xin & Mao. Hurting officer and 7 killings need to be countered to bring out their positive qualities.
2. Xin on top of Mao is very weak. We need to establish a root to strengthen it.
3. We need to determine the strength of the daymaster based on the chart and the 10 yr luck cycles. Hence we also need the gender info.
Regards
Tee
Tee,
Thanks for your input. It covered most critical points :)
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