Bazi Daily - 04/03/2011

Again, we are on the same case :)


辛　　辛　　戊　　壬　　（female）

卯　　丑　　申　　子



41 　　31 　 21 　11
甲　　乙　　丙　　丁
辰　　巳　　午　　未



We have identified the theoretical aspects of factors that contributed to her marital status (ie Single).  

As the analysis of Bazi is surrounded & to help the Day Master (if possible), it is insufficient by merely identify the theoretical factors. 

By saying that Water preventing Fire (ie spouse star) from entering into her chart or her life does not help.

I would say that it is due to her characters & personality.    WHO can and want to share with us by examining her personality.   By doing so, we can help her more readily :)

What do we live for, if it is not to make life less difficult for each other?

- George Eliot

Bazi Daily - 02/03/2011

From the past experiences, I observed that nobody or few would like to make any attempt in answering the questions posed in the postings :(

Below is the bazi of a lady who is still unattached :)    Try to identify the theoretical factors (from the perspective of bazi) that contributed to it :

辛　　辛　　戊　　壬　　（female）
卯　　丑　　申　　子


41 　　31 　 21  　11 
甲　　乙　　丙　　丁
辰　　巳　　午　　未

  

Nothing else matters much -- not wealth, nor learning, nor even health --

without this gift: the spiritual capacity to keep zest in living.

This is the creed of creeds, the final deposit and distillation of all important faiths:

that you should be able to believe in life.

- Harry Emerson Fosdick

Bazi Daily - 27/12/2010

Removal of Gall Bladder (in the year of 1997)

戊　　甲　　戊　　乙　　　　Female (1975)
辰　　辰　　寅　　卯

43      33     23      13      3
癸　　壬　　辛　　庚　　己
未　　午　　巳　　辰　　卯

We have touched on the health aspect of the above chart for the past few days. Now, who want to share with us on her marital relationship?

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that

the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.

- John F. Kennedy

Bazi Daily - 06/11/2010

官星来破坏喜用神者，受夫连累，被先生欺侮。

In the event where the spouse star conquering the favorable element in the chart, we can conclude that the marital relationship is not a blissful one.   We can further deduce that the spouse causes such a  problematic marriages.

What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything?  

- Vincent van Gogh

Bazi Daily - 05/11/2010

官星来破坏喜用神者, ==>  ???


Can anyone share with us on the implication(s) where the Spouse Star conquering or doing harm to the Favorabel Element in the chart?

Experience is how life catches up with us and teaches us to love and forgive each other.

- Judy Collins



Bazi Daily - 04/11/2010

日支坐偏印者，晚婚居多。

The above concludes that Secondary Resources Deity that resides in Spouse Palace may lead to LATE marriages.

Any comments on the above?

One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life:

that word is LOVE.

- Sophocles

Bazi Daily - 03/11/2010

女命比、劫太旺身强者，六亲无靠，逆损官星，夫妻易争吵，

家庭不和，夫妻间少爱情。
In the event where the Competitive Deity & Amiable Deity is TOO STRONG, it implies that the relationship with family members (六亲) is poor. 

In addition to the above, it also implies the poor marital relationship with the husband. 


The above mantra applies to both the male & female chart.

This is the true joy of life,

the being used up for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one.

- George Bernard Shaw



Bazi Daily - 02/11/2010

官星坐沐俗、桃花、咸池；夫英俊，多情慾，风流，外遇，在外拈花惹草。

Ancient scholars liked to make 'SCARY' comments such as above.   The statment, if not understand fully & readily, can be misleading and causes unnecessary disturbance to marital relationship. 

Of course, there are people out there in the market that deliberately making use of such 'incomplete' comments for their self - interest.

Before concluding whether the husband is flictatious or a womanizer, we have to examine the 'favorability' of the Spouse Star.

If the Spouse Star is unfavorable, the chances is high.  

If not, it could mean that the Spouse is good looking, expressive and is able to make use such good qualities in achieving his personal goals in the 'CORRECT MANNERS'.

Hence, NEVER EVER by misled by INCOMPLETE statement :)

Tell me not, in mournful numbers,

Life is but an empty dream!

For the soul is dead that slumbers,

and things are not what they seem.

Life is real! Life is earnest!

And the grave is not its goal;

Dust thou art; to dust returnest,

Was not spoken of the soul.

- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow



Bazi Daily - 01/11/2010

Hi,all!   Welcome back.  Today, I shall continue with the topic of Romance & Marriages.


官星坐沐俗、桃花、咸池；夫英俊，多情慾，风流，外遇，在外拈花惹草。


We have learned & know the concept of 12 Natural Life Cycle of Heavenly Stems (十二长生历程) and the various implications of Compound Stars (神杀).

Today, we shall make good use the above concepts in examining the marriages. 

According to the above text, should the Spouse Star sitting above the Bath & Flower of Romance, the Spouse may be good looking, with high sexual drive and flirtatous.  As such, he can be a womanizer and causes problematics marriages. 

What is your view on the above?   

I have found life an enjoyable, enchanting, active,

and sometime terrifying experience, and I've enjoyed it completely.

A lament in one ear, maybe, but always a song in the other.

- Sean O'Casey

Bazi Daily - 21/10/2010

命局正官、七杀、比劫俱见，恋爱婚姻必多不顺、多波折，或多生三角恋爱。


According to above text,  if certain deities appears simultaneously in the chart or during the Luck Cycle, it means relationship entanglement or problematics marriages.  

What are those deities?   They are :-

- Proper Authority Deity ;
- Imposing Authority Deity ;
- Amible Deity ; and
- Competitive Deity.

Bazi Daily - 20/10/2010

女命八字最喜财、官、印三宝俱现，命必佳，旺夫教子贤淑端庄，贤妻良母之命。


It was stated & believed in most of the classical text that:-

' the presence of Wealth Deity, Authority Deity & Resource Deity simultaneously in the bazi denotes a desirable situation that give rise to "GOOD LIFE" & marriages'.

Bazi Daily - 19/10/2010

日支与两旁的星及日干元神冲克刑，夫妻常争执，婚姻不稳，夫妻分居，夫多病。


It was stated in the previous posting that the combination that take place between the Spouse Star & another deity have the implication of separation.

What if the Spouse Star and/or palace is/are being clashed?

Yes, it could mean separation or disagreement between the DM and the Spouse.   It could, also, mean the Spouse may have suffered from illnesses.

Bazi Daily - 18/10/2010

官星被旁边的星字合去，与人争夫，本身易失宠。


How can we tell from the bazi chart that the Spouse would leave us & end the marital relationship ?

One of the tell-tale signs is that the Spouse Star is being combined away (合去) by the deity sitting beside it.

Bazi Daily - 17/10/2010

八字官星弱，或被食神、伤官克破，或官星伏藏不现，刑克丈夫。表示夫体弱多病，或夫妻失和，或早丧夫。

We have touched on the impact of absence, presence & favourability of the Spouse Star to the Day Master.

Weak in spouse star implies probable poor / weak marital relationship.   In the worst situation, it could also means poor health or the early death of the Spouse.

Besides the WEAK spouse energy that causes the above, the following theory also show the tell tale sign :-

- the Spouse Star is being attached by the Talent Deities. 

Bazi Daily - 16/10/2010

八字官星不现，丈夫在心中无分量，或夫妾聚少离多，夫缘较差，夫妻易有隔阂，不易沟通。

Bazi Daily - 15/10/2010

官星为忌神，夫无助於己，为夫所累，饱受夫之苦凌，先生无法倚靠，夫妻不和。


When the Spouse Star is unfavorable, the negative impact would surface. 

In such an event, we can conclude that :-

- the husband is not able to provide 'security' to the Day Master ; 
- even worst, the husband may so-called bring 'BAD LUCK' to the Day Master.

In short, the Day Master cannot totally depends on her husband for livelihood.  This resulted in problematic marriages.

Bazi Daily - 14/10/2010

官星为喜用，可嫁良夫，夫有助於己可倚靠。

I have mentioned in the previous posting that:

Strong Spouse Star   =   Strong Impact

So, what type of Impact could the favoruable Proper Authority Deity have on the Day Master?

Bazi Daily - 13/10/2010

八字官星旺者，一生受丈夫之影响最大，丈夫在心中之分量很重，很爱丈夫。

In the event the energy of the Spouse Star (Proper Authority Deity) is strong, it could mean that the husband is important to the Day Master.  Hence, she be being greatly influenced by the husband.  

The reason is simply that she love her husband.  

Bazi Daily - 12/10/2011

女命本命元神旺，最忌日支坐必劫、比肩、偏印、正印，表示婚姻家庭不稳。

For a female chart, it would be considered as undesirable to have the following deities reside in the Spouse Palace (i.e. Day Branch) where the Day Master is strong :-

- Competitive Deity

- Amiable Deity

- Primary Resource Deity

- Secondary Resource Deity

This would affect the marital relationship of the Day Master unfavorably.

Bazi Daily - 11/10/2010

The subject of homosexual/bisexual tendencies is normally the FAQ during the class and seminar.   FYI, I have included it in my ebook on Marriages & Romance.

Nevertheless, below are some of the pointers for your food of thought :-

-  absence of spouse star in the entire chart & the luck cycle.
-  the Competitive & Amiable Deity tends to be the favorable element to DM.

Got it.....