Bazi Daily - 01/04/2010 - The 'C' Personality Type (Part 06)

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

The 'C' Personality Types of The DISC Behavioral Model (Part 06)

Today, I shall touch on the following interesting subjects :-
How to WORK with a C personality type...


· Get right down to business. Present the facts. Focus on the issue.
· Involve them in defining standards and developing procedures.
· Ask their opinions. Wait for them to answer. Listen.
· Involve them in long term planning.
· Respect their personal limits.
· Train them in people skills and negotiating.

What NOT to do around a C personality type...

· Pop changes on them.
· Ask them to take on multiple projects at one time.
· Spend time on their feelings or ask them how they're really doing.
· Expect them to cope well with change.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ MARK TWAIN ~

 

Whoever is happy will make others happy, too.

Some thoughts.....

Without realizing it, time flies quietly & unknowingly ....

I have started this bazi sharing blog since 1 October 2009 with the title 'What is Bazi?'.   And today (31 March 2010) its marks the HALF year milestone.

Bazi (or any other destiny decoding technique such as Zi Wei Astrology) has its origin from China. It is an oriental approach of studying human behaviours &, in more modern terminology, personality.


And we all know that Personality affects our decision making process &, in turn, influences the outcome (i.e. 'destiny' in the language of bazi).


So, KNOW yourselves (知命), ACCEPT yourselves (both the strengths and weaknesses) (认命) & you should be able to IMPROVE yourselves (造命).

Bazi (or destiny analysis) an effective tools & wisdom in getting to know ourselves.

Some of my close friends asked & questioned me on the rationale of creating and sharing this 'FREE' blog.

It is nothing else, but PASSION!

My initial goal & intention is to share with bazi enthusiasts & the general public on this fascinating ancient arts and science.   

Besides sharing & promoting, it is also part of my objectives to clear some of the misconceptions general laymen or bazi enthusiasts might have.  By saying so, it doesn't imply that the information stated & provided here is 'definitely' correct.   Its only expresses my understanding (of this subject) to the best of my knowledge.  All are welcome to furnish alternate views or different perspectives for my personal growth :)

The readers of this blog comes from all walk of life.  I sincerely & eagerly wish that more would share & contribute your views :)

Last but not least :-

= thanks for your questions & queries that make me think even wider & deeper ;
= thanks for your participations in those questions posted in this blog ;
= thanks for your support....

Enjoy reading ......

Case Study on 'C' Personality Type - Proper Authority

Do you know that there are approximately 52 thousands bazi configurations :)   It is extremely rare for us to have an opportunity to read the same set of bazi for different individuals. 

By chance, I got a chance to read the same set of bazi for 2 different individuals, except that one is female & the other is a male.

Below is the chart :-

        DM　   PA       PA
X　 丙　　癸　　癸
X　 辰　　亥　　丑

where PA = Proper Authority Deity (正官)

Based on what I have shared on the characteristics of the 'C' Personality, you may want to apply it to the above chart.   Better still, give recommendation(s), if any, to the DM.

Improve your skills or analytical mind through Practice !

Bazi Daily - 31/03/2010 - The 'C' Personality Type (Part 05)

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

The 'C' Personality Types of The DISC Behavioral Model (Part 05)

As we have learned that at their worst, the 'C' Personality Type (i.e. Proper Authority Deity) can be a nit picker, a hoarder, an automaton. The question that follow is "How can we be our best?"

To be your best...


· Become more open to other people's ways of thinking and communicating.
· Learn when it is appropriate to settle for good enough.
· Gain perspective on the consequences of being wrong.
· Know that you don't have to know everything before voicing an opinion or making a decision.

Cultivate acceptance. Become more assertive.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ MARK TWAIN ~

Sanity and happiness are an impossible combination.

Bazi Daily - 30/03/2010 - The 'C' Personality Types (Part 04)

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

The 'C' Personality Types of The DISC Behavioral Model (Part 04)

At their best, individuals with the 'C' Personality Types (Proper Authority deity) can.....


· Be fair and objective, not letting feelings or personal biases get in the way of doing the right thing.
· Ask the right questions.
· Maintain high standards in spite of pressures to compromise values or the quality of work.

They can be a clear thinker, an analyst, a diplomat.

However, when they are stressed out, they can...


-  Suffer from analysis paralysis.
-  Can get bogged down in details.
-  Withhold information and become stubborn.
-  Become overly critical -- of others and of yourself.
-  Tell ideas instead of selling ideas.

At their worst, they can be a nit picker, a hoarder, an automaton.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ MARGARET BONNANO ~

It is only possible to live happily ever after on a day to day basis.

Bazi Daily - 29/03/2010 - The 'C' Personality Type (Part 03)

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

The 'C' Personality Types of The DISC Behavioral Model (Part 03)

If you are observant, you can RECOGNIZE a C personality type (Proper Authority Deity) easily ...

· They tend to quiet and indirect and formal. They appear cautious.
· They speak slowly and matter-of-factly, trying to avoid mistakes.
· They rarely speak up at meetings unless there is a need for he/she to do so.
· They prefer to go off by themselves and to collect data and make plans.
· Their offices are neat.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ MARCEL PROUST ~

Let us be grateful to people who make us happy; they are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom.

Bazi Daily - 28/03/2010 - The 'C' Personality Types (Part 02)

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

The 'C' Personality Types of The DISC Behavioral Model (Part 02)

Have you correctly identified the 10 deities that resemble the 'C' Personality Types?

Quite a number of you have associated it with Resources Deity.   But, personally, I would say that it possesses similar characteristics with the Proper Authority Deity.  You may want to take a look at the quality of Proper Authority again :)

Those with 'C' (& Proper Authority Deity) are energized by...


· Being right
· Having access to information and data
· Having time to investigate the problem, formulate a plan, and carry it through to completion
· Being dealt with in a reserved, business-like manner
· Being recognized and rewarded for specific accomplishments

They lose energy by...

· Dealing with sudden or abrupt change
· Being required to socialize and to disclose personal information
· Lacking the time to process information or to evaluate consequences
· Being criticized by people who don't understand the situation
· Working in a system that lacks quality control or safety regulations

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ M. SCOTT PECK ~

The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.

Bazi Daily - 27/03/2010 - The 'C' Personality Types (Part 01)

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

The 'C' Personality Types of The DISC Behavioral Model (Part 01)

Just a quick revision, the DISC Behavioral model describes four basic patterns of Personality Types, none of which is better or worse than any of the others.


Very few people are purely one type & most of us are a combination of types. The description that follow is of someone who is almost completely particular personality types.   See if it describes you or someone you know.

Again, remember it describes an extreme form of a behavior that is often much more nuanced.

The 'C' Personality Types => Conscientious, Correct, Careful
If you are a C personality type you are concerned about QUALITY and ACCURACY.


· You want to be right, precise & exact.
· You research every aspect of a situation and consider every eventuality before making a decision.
· You value your reputation for being accurate and logical.
· You like systems and procedures that produce predictable and consistent outcomes.
· You look for what could go wrong.
· You read the fine print. You are a stickler for detail.
· You have very high standards, especially for yourself. You can be a perfectionist.

Want to make an intellectual guesses?  Which of the 10 deities resembles the above-mentioned qualities?

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ LEO BUSCAGLIA ~

 

What we call the secret of happiness is no more a secret than our willingness to choose life.

Bazi Daily - 26/03/2010

Bazi & The Theory of Personality

Personally, I deeply feel that the bazi is the study of human behaviours & personality.   In which, destiny is deduced based upon our personality.

Pyschology has been one of my favorite subjects during the U-days & even up to now :)     From today onwards, I plan to share with all of you on the Theroy of Personality & its association with characteristics of the respective 10 deities.

Believe it or not, change the perspective of viewing the bazi (temporarily), you would learn more :)

I am going to share with you The DISC Behavioral model.  The model describes four basic patterns of Personality Types as follow :-

The 'D' Personality Types = Direct, Decisive, Drive

The 'I' Personality Types = Influence, Image, Enthusiasm

The 'S' Personality Types = Steady, Stable, Supportive

The 'C' Personality Types = Conscientious, Correct, Careful


Instead of viewing / classifying personality into 10 prominent types (i.e. The Theory of 10 Deities), this model group it into 4 main distinct categories.  * Please take note that "None of which is better or worse than any of the others".

We shall examine it in greater details for the following days....

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ KALIDASA ~ 

Listen to the Exhortation of the Dawn!

Look to this Day!

For it is Life, the very Life of Life.

In its brief course lie all the

Verities and Realities of your Existence.

The Bliss of Growth,

The Glory of Action,

The Splendor of Beauty;

For Yesterday is but a Dream,

And Tomorrow is only a Vision;

But Today well lived makes

Every Yesterday a Dream of Happiness,

And every Tomorrow a Vision of Hope.

Look well therefore to this Day!

Such is the Salutation of the Dawn!

Bazi Daily - 25/03/2010

印星贴近日主，家庭管教比较严，没有什么娱乐。

Literal Translation & Interpretations:-

If the Resources Deity is locating near to the DM, such as :-

X      DM      RD       X
X       X          X         X              where RD stands for Resources Deity

What possible inference can we make?

In term of family upbringing, it is more stringent & restrictive.  So much so that the DM may not have much of the freedom for enjoyment. 

Tip shared by TH Teo

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ JOHN MILTON ~

The mind is its own place, and in itself, can make heaven of Hell, and a hell of Heaven.

Bazi Daily - 24/03/2010

官煞混杂

Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority

Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority 官煞混杂

When both Proper Authority and Imposing Authority appear in the chart, we refer to it as “Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority”.

To the DM, does the “Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority” bode well or not?

Both the Deities are elements that restrain the DM. To a weak DM, “Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority” (unfavourable) is a definite disadvantage. If the DM is strong, he will find it less unfavourable, but it inevitably causes him mental disturbances

Character of “Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority”

A weak DM with “Intermingling of Proper and Imposing Authority” in his chart will tend to be erratic in nature and indecisive, thus easily manipulated by others.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ JOHN D. ROCKEFELLER ~

I can think of nothing less pleasurable than a life devoted to pleasure.

Bazi Daily - 23/03/2010

官印相生

Creative Relationship between Proper Authority and Primary Resources

Creative Relationship between Proper Authority and Primary Resources 官印相生)


"Creative Relationship between Proper Authority and Resources"  refers to creative support cycle between Proper Authority, Resources and a weak DM respectively. Such is termed a sentimental creative relationship.


Proper Authority connotes law abiding and emphasis on moralities; Primary Resources connotes gentleness and cultured nature. As such, DMs who have a creative relationship between Proper Authority and Primary Resources have considerable leadership ability, are aboveboard, trustworthy and easily win the respect of others.

Such persons are poor at expressing themselves. They are a little slow-witted, but they are aboveboard, sincere, practical and dignified. They are bestowed with many benefactors throughout their lives and can obtain the recognition and promotion by their superiors and seniors.

If the year and month pillars manifest the creative relationship between Proper Authority and Primary Resources, the DM is sheltered and cared for by parents and ancestors. He is of noble birth and his parents guide him well.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ JOHN BARRYMORE ~

Happiness often sneaks in through a door you didn't know you left open.

Bazi Daily - 22/03/2010

财印交伤

Mutual Destruction of Wealth and Resources

When making deductions from one’s eight characters, we can go about it by the strength of a day or special chart patterns, or analysing the arrangement and positions of the heavenly stems and earthly Branches.

X      DM       CW    RD
X        X           X       X

Where :  CW stands for Conventional Wealth (represents father)
               RD stands for Resources Deity (represents mother)

Both the year and month pillar can represent the Palace of Parents, and the Deities of Resources and Wealth (parents) also coincidentally reside in the Palace of Parents.

Deities of Wealth (Father) and Deities of Resources (Mother) have mutually destructive relationships. As such we deduce that the DM’s parents had a poor relationship; in severe cases, divorce may result.

In actual fact, this DM’s parents have abominable relations and have divorced quite some time ago. Of course, the arrangement of the Deities of Resources and Wealth are insufficient to cause the divorce of the parents. Other destiny analysis factors would also come into play.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ JAMES OPPENHEIM ~

The foolish man seeks happiness in the distance, the wise grows it under his feet.

Bazi Daily - 21/03/2010

财官双美

Strong Wealth and Authority

“Strong Wealth and Authority” must have the below pre-requisites:

• Strong DM
• Strong Deities of Wealth as favourable elements
• Strong Proper Authority as favourable element


The strong DM has strong Deities of Wealth and Proper Authority who complement each other well, meaning to say that the DM will enjoy wealth and fame.

In general, DMs with strong Deities of Wealth and Proper Authority are born intelligent, systematic, dignified and careful. They manage their finances well, without splurging or being thrifty to a fault.

“Strong Wealth and Authority” connotes that success in career comes early; work, business and official careers are successful.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ JAMES M. BARRIE ~

Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others, cannot keep it from themselves.

Bazi Daily - 20/03/2010

财多身弱，富屋贫人Weak DM with Abundant Wealth, Beggar in Mansionette

"Weak DM with Abundant Wealth, Beggar in Mansionette" refers to a weak DM with very strong and unfavourable Deities of Wealth.

For those who are “Weak DM(s) with Abundant Wealth”, what characteristics will there be?

Character

Strong Deities of Wealth often have strong desires, but as the DM is weak, lacks confidence and perseverance and is easily manipulated by others. Although he has many aspirations, he lacks the ability to execute them, so money comes and goes and he often faces financial difficulties.

Weak DMs are unable to restrain the Deities of Wealth. Conversely, it becomes a case of being crushed by too much wealth. When big fortunes arrive, it often brings with it lawsuits and calamities.

Recommendations

Weak DMs with strong Deities of Wealth are unsuited to do business. They are better off being salaried employees in finance and economic areas. Enterprises and service sectors are also good choices.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ HELEN KELLER ~

Happiness cannot come from without. It must come from within.

It is not what we see and touch or that which others do for us which makes us happy;

it is that which we think and feel and do,

first for the other fellow and then for ourselves.

Bazi Daily - 19/03/2010

伤官佩印

Explicit Talent Coexists with Primary Resources

Explicit Talent Coexists with Primary Resources (伤官佩印)


The characteristic of Explicit Talent lies in being created and supported by the DM. It connotes expression, elaboration, fluency, excellence, intelligence and innovation etc.

DMs with Explicit Talent are showy and love to seek the limelight. The indomitable and headstrong nature of Explicit Talent causes the DM to be inordinately proud of his own ability, smug and non-conformist. He gets into trouble due to his brashness.


Primary Resources (symbolic of benevolence and acceptance), however, restrains the negativity symbolic of Explicit Talent.  As such, majority of the DMs who have strong Primary Resources as the favourable element (to control the excessive energy of the Explicit Talent) value morality and cultivation; they belong to the righteous.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

All seasons are beautiful for the person who carries happiness within.

Bazi Daily - 18/03/2010

伤官见官，为祸百端

Explicit Talent Meets Authority, Myriads of Calamity Arise

Explicit Talent Meets Authority, Myriads of Calamity Arise (伤官见官，为祸百端) is a famous term & is usually quoted when examining the marriage for a female.  It also, normally, connotes lawsuits and disputes.

Prerequisites for forming Explicit Talent Meets Authority:

a. Weak DM
b. Overwhelming and unfavourable Explicit Talent restrains Proper Authority’s repression of the DM.
c. Absence of Deities of Wealth
d. Absence of Deities of Resources to suppress Explicit Talent

Character Portrayal of Explicit Talent Meets Authority:


DMs who have Explicit Talent are intelligent, arrogant and portentous. They love haranguing and are slightly materialistic; those with Proper Authority are conformist, value moral discourse, empathetic and always seek to benefit others.

When Explicit Talent is overwhelming and restrains Proper Authority, the DM dislikes being restricted and disregards laws and regulations. He may even scorn laws and behave wilfully, inviting strife.

If the Proper Authority yearly luck cycle descends, this period is particularly susceptible to lawsuits and disputes, hence the saying “Explicit Talent Meets Authority，Myriads of Calamity Arise”.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ HELEN KELLER ~

Many people have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness.

It is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose.

Bazi Daily - 17/03/2010

食神制杀

Implicit Talent Subdues Imposing Authority

When the day master and the Deity of Imposing Authority are of comparative strength in the four pillar chart, we term this “Comparable Day Master and Imposing Authority” (身煞两停). Under such circumstances, the Deity of Implicit Talent is the ideal favourable element, hence the term “Implicit Talent Subdues Imposing Authority”.

Those who have“Implicit Talent Subdues Imposing Authority”in their Eight Characters:

1. Are eloquent and good at persuasion (characteristic of Deity of Implicit Talent).
2. Loyal but slightly headstrong（characteristic of Deity of Imposing Authority).
3. The restraint by the Deity of Implicit Talent means that the day master is able to control himself. He knows when to fold his sails and understands his own limitations.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ HENRY DAVID THOREAU ~

The most I can do for my friend is simply to be his friend.

I have no wealth to bestow on him.

If he knows that I am happy in loving him,

he will want no other reward. Is not friendship divine in this?

Bazi of Jack Neo - A well known Singapore Film Director

In March 2010, a two-year-long extramarital affair between Jack Neo and freelance model Wendy Chong was publicized.  On 9 March 2010, additional reports were released about Jack Neo having extramarital affairs with up to 11 women. 

Jack Neo admitted to the affair with Wendy Chong.  He, however, denied having any unethical relationship with the rest.

Below is the bazi of Jack Neo :-

X    辛    丁    己       Male chart (1960) 
X    亥    丑    亥

47       Luck Cycle  
壬
申


Based on your understanding & analysis of his bazi, do you believe in his denial ?

Bazi Daily - 16/03/2010

寿星、爵星、福星

Star of Longevity, Star of Nobility & Star of Luck

Traditionally, scholars viewed Deity of Implicit Talent as an auspicious deity.   It is often seen as Star of Longevity (寿星), Star of Nobility (爵星) and Star of Luck (福星).   Why is that so ?


Star of Longevity  (寿星)

~ Deity of Imposing Authority conflicts with and harms the day master, whereas the Deity of Implicit Talent can restrain the Deity of Imposing Authority and keep him from savaging the day master. The day master is thus able to survive safely and enjoy a longer life.



Star of Luck (福星)

~ Those with Deity of Implicit Talent are imbued with artistic flair, enjoyment of the palate, a comfortable life, a leisurely mentality and good health. It can be said to be the manifestation of good luck and fortune.


Star of Nobility (爵星)

~ Deity of Implicit Talent can creatively support the Deities of Wealth and give rise to affluent living· Deity of Implicit Talent restrains the high-handedness and unreasonableness of the Deity of Imposing Authority and transforms it into the drive to succeed. The day master has an aura of nobility.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ HENRY DAVID THOREAU ~

That man is richest whose pleasures are cheapest.

Feedback of Virus

Recently, I have received a numbers of feedback from the readers on the issue of virus.   As mentioned, I am effectively computer illerate with respects to the technicality of the computer.  Would appreciate if someone could advise me on the probable causes to the problems.

BTW, I do not cooperate with any company in advertising in the blog.  I myself was being re-directed to some unknown commecial advertisements as well in a number of occasions.

I will find way to report to the Blogger for assistance.   Thanks for your supports & concerns.  Hope that the virus detected here does not cause any inconveniences at your end.

Bazi Daily - 15/03/2010

比劫夺财 / 比劫争夫

Competitive Deity wrestles for Wealth

Amiable Deity Contends for Husband

“Competitive Deity wrestles for Wealth”and“Amiable Deity Contends for Husband”refers to the situation whereupon another (or numerous) Amiable or Competitive Deity appears in one’s chart or luck cycle and competes with the DM to combine with Proper Authority or Conventional Wealth.

Illustration :-

X      甲      己      甲
X      X        X       X

When “Competitive Deity wrestles for Wealth”and“Amiable Deity Contends for Husband”appears in the chart or luck cycle, this is usually related to marriages and relationships.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ HELEN KELLER ~

When one door of happiness closes, another opens;

but often we look so long at the closed door that

we do not see the one which has been opened for us.

Bazi Daily - 14/03/2010

身强财弱

Strong DM, Weak Wealth

“Strong DM, Weak Wealth”refers to a strong DM with weak Deities of Wealth and absence of support from Deities of Talent.

From this we can make further deductions on the DM’s character:

1． DM is too strong, intrinsically stubborn, unreasonable and obdurate
2． Obstinate, individualistic and reckless
3． Weak Deities of Wealth represent poor financial management and quick dissipation of accumulated wealth
4． Highly ambitious, opportunistic and may even be an avid gambler.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ GEORGE SAND ~

There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved.

Bazi Daily - 13/03/2010

月刃与日刃

Yue Ren & Ri Ren

What is meant by“Yue Ren (月刃)”and“Ri Ren (日刃)”？

In general, when the elements akin to the DM but of different Yin-Yang nature appear in the heavenly stems, we term them“Competitive Deities”; the same elements that appear in the main energies of the earthly branches are termed “Ren (刃)”.

“Ren (刃)”appears at the main energies of different earthly branches, and has the below pseudonyms:

Ren (刃) appears at Month Branch       =  known as Yue Ren (月刃)
Ren (刃) appears at Day Branch           =  known as Ri Ren (日刃)


Literally, the Chinese character 刃 refers to a sharp blade that can inflict harm & damage (which also known as the 'Sword'). 

It is actually the Star of Aggression (羊刃),  connoting intensity and aggression,

Together, the Star of Aggression (Yang Ren) is a compelling compound star, which encompasses very resolute and destructive potential. Whether it is good or bad will have to bank on how other latent conflicts or unfavourable factors within the four-pillar chart shall affect it.

Like a double-edged sword, the Star of Aggression may harm others but it can also hurt the one who wields it.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ GEORGE BURNS ~

Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close-knit family in another city.

Bazi Daily - 12/03/2010

建禄离祖，专禄伤妻

Jian Lu Disassociates from Ancestors, Zhuan Lu Weakens Wife (PART 2)

I have mentioned it yesterday that the aforementioned scenarios seem disadvantageous to the DM, do not be over-alerted by such verse.   We need to consider the strength and the favourableness of the Amiable Deity (or Lu) in the chart.


If the Amiable Deity (or Lu) is overwhelming and also an unfavourable element, the aforementioned scenario will occur; conversely, if the Amiable Deity (or Lu) is the favourable element, the situation varies greatly.


Jian Lu Disassociates from Ancestors (建禄离祖) i.e. Amiable Deity appears at the month branch
 
When Unfavourable
 
－　Will leave ancestors, parents or have poor relations with seniors
－　Will leave hometown and settle down elsewhere

Favourable

－　Resolute, independent
－　Possesses spirit of autonomy and perseverance

 
Based on the above understanding, you can deduce the probable events and applies it to the other part of the verse.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ FRANKLIN D. ROOSEVELT ~

Happiness is not in the mere possession of money;

it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative effort.

Bazi Daily - 11/03/2010

建禄离祖，专禄伤妻

Jian Lu Disassociates from Ancestors, Zhuan Lu Weakens Wife”

We have learned various types of Lu from previous posting.  Today, we shall further investigate its usage.  The above verse described its applications.

Mantra 1    Jian Lu Disassociates from Ancestors (建禄离祖)

Explanation  :   Amiable Deity appears at the Month Branch

Inference :

－　Will leave ancestors, parents or have poor relations with seniors
－　Will leave hometown and settle down elsewhere


Mantra 2    Zhuan Lu Weakens Wife (专禄伤妻)

Explanation :   Amiable Deity appears at the Day Branch

Inference :

－　Poor marital relations between DM and spouse
－　If severe, wife may be harmed

 
The aforementioned scenarios seem disadvantageous to the DM.   But, is it true?

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ FRANCOISE DE MOTTEVILLE ~

The true way to render ourselves happy is to love our work and find in it our pleasure.

Bazi Daily - 10/03/2010

背禄、建禄、专禄、归禄

Bei Lu, Jian Lu, Zhuan Lu and Gui Lu

What is “Bei Lu, Jian Lu, Zhuan Lu and Gui Lu”? (背禄、建禄、专禄、归禄)

When elements alike the DM that are of the same Yin-Yang nature appear in the heavenly stems, we call them “Amiable Deities”(比肩); 　the same elements that appear as the main energies of the earthly branches are termed “Lu” (禄)。

“Lu”appears at the main energies of different earthly branches, and carry the below different titles:

Amiable Deities at Year Branch      =   Bei Lu (背禄)
Amiable Deities at Month Branch   =   Jian Lu (建禄)
Amiable Deities at Day Branch       =  Zhuan Lu (专禄)
Amiable Deities at Hour Branch      =  Gui Lu (归禄)

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ FELIX ADLER ~

The truth which has made us free will in the end make us glad also.

Bazi Daily - 09/03/2010

灾难之星

Star of Calamity

All along, people view Secondary Resources as a star of calamity.  But, have you ever wonder why is that so?

To gain a full comprehension, we need to have a good understanding of the inter-relationship between the Secondary Resources Deity and the rest.

Secondary Resources Deity diminishes Proper Authority Deity that represents fame & reputation ;
Secondary Resources Deity restrains Implicit Talent that represents enjoyment. 

All in all, the existence of Secondary Resources Deity is 'doing harm' (i.e. reducing the energy of ) to both the deities.   This resulted in the creation of negative image to Secondary Resources Deity.

In fact, the Ten Deities are never inherently good or bad, the key lies in whether they can serve a balancing function for the chart.

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ ERIC HOFFER ~

You can never get enough of what you don't need to make you happy.

Bazi Daily - 08/03/2010

枭神夺食

Hunt of the Xiao Shen

The studies of Chinese Metaphysics (including Bazi) is about achieving & maintaining 'BALANCE' between various different forces such as Yin vs Yang. 

Too much or Too less is not preferred as it causes IMBALANCE.    

Accordingly, an overwhelming Secondary Resources (thus unfavourable) is termed as “Xiao Shen” (枭神).

You may be wondering what is Xiao Shen & how it is related to our destiny & the relationship with others.

Legend has it that the Xiao (枭) is a nocturnal bird that preys on its own kind, sometimes even devouring its own young when its hunt is unfruitful. As such, the presence of the Xiao (an overwhelming and unfavourable Secondary Resources) is disadvantageous to the DM’s young children.


Illustration :

RD      DM     RD    X   
 X        RD      RD   X

The Resources Deity is obviously too much for the DM to absorb & handle.   The DM (especially to a female) may be over sensitive & prefer to stay single for entire life.   Even if she married, she may prefer to have no kid.  

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ ELLA WHEELER WILCOX ~

The truest greatness lies in being kind,

the truest wisdom in a happy mind.

Bazi Daily - 07/03/2010

We have touched on the subject of “Overwhelming Presence of Resources Brings Illness” (印多为病) from the perspective of 10 Deities.   

Also, we have discussed the meaning of “Benevolent Mother Destroys Child” (慈母多败儿).  Today, I shall further introduce the related concept by quotning the ancient destiny analysis tome ~ “Yuan Li Fu” (元理赋).

Yuan Li Fu has a very good description on the concept "Benevolent Mother Destroys Child" from the perspective of Five Elements :-

• Metal depends on Earth for creation, Abundant Earth buries Metal (土能生金，土多金埋)；
• Earth depends on Fire for creation, Abundant Fire burns Earth (火能生土，火多土焦)；
• Fire depends on Wood for creation, Abundant Wood stokes Fire (木能生火，木多火焚)；
• Wood depends on Water for creation, Abundant Water Floats Wood (水能生木，水多木漂)；
• Water depends on Metal for creation, Abundant Metal fouls Water (金能生水，金多水濁).

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ EDWARD DE BONO ~

Unhappiness is best defined as the difference between our talents and our expectations.

Bazi Daily - 06/03/2010

Why the saying that “Overwhelming Presence of Resources Brings Illness” (印多为病)?

The weak DM rejoices at his creative relationship with Primary Resources.

However, should the Deity’s presence be overwhelming, it will overpower the DM, making him repressed and defenseless. It may be said, “The benevolent mother destroys her child (慈母多败儿)”, that an overwhelming presence of Primary Resources contrarily brings illness.

As for “Overwhelming Presence of Resources Brings Illness”, one generally displays the following disposition:

• Clumsy and torpid reactions
• Depressed and unhappy
• Vexes self, prone to insomnia
• Pessimistic

FOOD FOR THOUGHT

~ EDITH WHARTON ~

If only we'd stop trying to be happy we'd have a pretty good time.

Bazi Daily - 05/03/2010

From today onwards, I shall be sharing with all of you some of the definitions pertaining to the terminologies of 10  deities.

What is “Primary Resources Mitigates Imposing Authority” (一仁化煞)?

The Chinese character 'Ren (仁)' refers to Primary Resources.

As we all know, Imposing Authority attacks / conquers the DM.  But, with the presence of Primary Resources, the chance for Imposing Authority to restrain the DM is removed when the former creates a mitigating factor in the form of Primary Resources.

Primary Resources can be said to have reconciled the strength of Imposing Authority’s attack, henceforth the saying “Primary Resources Mitigates Imposing Authority”.

The Ideal situation is where the Primary Resources is near to the DM. If the former is too distant from the latter, results are limited.
 
Illustration 1 :
 
X       甲      癸      庚
X       X       X        X
 
 
Illustration 2 :
 
X      甲      庚     癸
X      X        X      X
 
Question :-
 
In the event where the Imposing Authority Deity (i.e. Geng metal) is unfavorable, which of the Resources Deity (illustrate 1 or 2) can better protecting the DM?
 
 

FOOD FOR THOUGH

 
Below best describe the Concept of Yin & Yang.
 
ECCLESIASTES:
 
For everything there is a season,
And a time for every matter under heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;
A time to embrace, And a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to seek, and a time to lose;
A time to keep, and a time to throw away;
A time to tear, and a time to sew;
A time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate,
A time for war, and a time for peace.

Ecclesiastes 3:1-8

Bazi Daily - 04/03/2010

吝啬命：财星入墓主聚财，孤寒吝啬。

Literal Translation & Interpretation :-

Thrifty is considered to be one of the virtues to Chinese.  But, the line between thrifty & a miser (or penny-pincher) can be undifferentiable.

From the perspective of the theory of Bazi, we can differentiate the thrifty from a miser easily :)

Thrifty Personality :- 
 ~ where the Conventional Wealth is favorable.  They are practical & prudent in term of financial planning.

A Miser :-
 ~ where the Wealth Deity is trapped into the Wealth Pool (财库)



FOOD FOR THOUGHT

The intellect has little to do on the road to discovery.

There comes a leap in consciousness, call it intuition or what you will,

and the solution comes to you and you don't know how or why.

~ Albert Einstein ~

Bazi Daily - 03/03/2010

打架八字：



多杀者，好勇斗狠。火重（急）、金（攻）重，喜打架。

Literal Translation & Interpretation:-

Who is the born fighter that can easily be engaged in the fight (right or wrong) ?

Yes, you are right!  These are normally the persons that are extremely energetic (physically), impatient & aggressive.

With the understanding of this characteristics, we should be able to identify, with ease, the parameter of a fightefr :-

~ Imposing Authority      =  Aggressive
~ Strong Fire                   =  Impatient & non-exhaustive physical energy
~ Metal                           =  weapon, attack



FOOD FOR THOUGHT

I honestly think it is better to be a failure at something you love

than

to be a success at something you hate.

~  George Burns ~

Case Study

Below is the bazi chart of a lady born in the year of 1973, Singapore : -

甲   己   庚   癸     坤
子   亥   申   丑

64  54  44  34  24  14  4
丁 丙 乙 甲 癸 壬 辛
卯 寅 丑 子 亥 戌 酉


Based on what we have learned from the past few days, what can you say about her health?

Bazi Daily - 02/03/2010

I have extracted & covered some of the important information from the 'Ji Shan Pian' (《继善篇》).  Below is the full version for your pleasure reading :-

《继善篇》

作者：－－张神峰

人禀天地、命属阴阳、生居覆载之内、尽在五行之中。

欲知贵贱、先观月令乃提纲。

次断吉凶、专用日干为主本，

三元要成格局、四柱喜见财官。

用神不可损伤、日主最宜健旺。

年伤日干、名为主本不和。

岁月时中、大怕官杀混杂。

取用凭於生月、当推究於深浅、发觉在於日时、要消息於强弱。

官星正气、忌见刑冲。

时上偏财、怕逢兄弟。

生气印绶、利官运畏见财乡。

七杀偏官、喜制伏不宜太过。

伤官复行官运．不测灾来，羊刃冲合岁君、勃然祸至。

富而且贵、定因财旺生官。
非夭即贫、必是身衰遇鬼。
六壬生临午位、号曰禄马同乡。
癸日坐向已宫、乃是财官双美。
财多身弱、正为富屋贫人。
以煞化权、定显寒门贵客。
登科甲第、官星临无破之宫。
纳粟奏名、财库居生旺之地。
官星太旺、才临旺处必倾。
印绶被伤、倘若荣华不久。
有官有印、无破作廊庙之材。
无官无印、有格乃朝廷之用。
名标金榜、须还身旺逢官。
得佐圣君、贵在冲官逢合。
非格非局、见之焉得为奇。
身弱遇官、得後徒然费力。
小人命内、亦有正印官星。
君子格中、也犯七煞羊刃。
为人好杀、羊刃必犯於偏官。
素食慈心、印绶逐逢於天德。
生平少病、日主刚强。
一世安然、财命有气。
官刑不犯、印绶天德同宫。
少乐多忧、盖因日主自弱。
身强煞浅、假煞为权。
杀重身轻、终身有损。
衰则变官为鬼，旺则化鬼为官。
月生日干、运行不喜财乡。
日主无依、却喜运行财地。
时归日禄，生平不喜官星。
阴若朝阳、切忌丙丁离位。
太岁乃众煞之王，入命未必为殃，若遇战斗之乡、必主刑於本命
岁伤日干、有祸必轻。 　
日犯岁君、灾殃必重。
五行有救、其年反凶为祥。
四柱无情、故论名为克岁。
庚辛来伤甲乙、丙丁先见无危。
丙丁反克庚辛、壬癸遇之不畏。
戊己愁逢甲乙、干头须要庚辛。
壬癸虑遭戊己、甲乙临之有救。
壬来克丙、须要戊字当头。
癸去伤丁、却喜己来相助。
庚得壬男制丙、可许长年。
甲以乙妹妻庚、凶为吉兆。
天元虽旺、若无依倚是常人。
日主太柔、纵遇财官为寒士。
女人无杀、带二德作两国之封。
男命身强、遇三奇为一品之贵。
甲逢己而生旺、定怀中正之心。
丁遇壬而太过、必犯淫讹之乱。
丙临申位、逢阳水、难获延年，月逢印缓、则安富尊荣。
己人亥宫、见阴木，终为损寿，时遇丙寅、则冠带簪缨。
庚值寅而遇丙、主旺无危。
乙遇巳而见辛、身衰有祸。
乙逢庚旺、常存仁义之心。
丙合辛生、镇掌威权之职。
一木重逢火位、名为气散之文。
独水三犯庚辛、号曰体全之象。
水归冬旺、生平乐自无忧。
木向春生、处世安然必寿。
金弱遇火炎之地、血疾无疑。
土虚逢木旺之乡、脾伤定论。
筋疼骨痛、盖因木被金伤。
眼昏目暗、必是火遭水克。
下元冷疾、必是水值火伤。
金逢艮而遇土、号曰返魂。
水入巽而见金、名曰不绝。
土临卯位、未中年便欲灰心。
金遇火乡、虽少壮必然挫志。
金木交叉刑战、仁义俱无。
水火递互相伤、是非日有。
木从水养、水盛而木则漂流。
金赖土生、土厚而金遭埋没。
是以五行不可偏枯、务禀中和之气；
更能绝虑忘思、监命无差误也。

FOOD FOR THOUGTH

~ CARL JUNG ~

There are as many nights as days, and the one is just as long as the other in the year's course. Even a happy life cannot be without a measure of darkness, and the word 'happy' would lose its meaning if it were not balanced by sadness.